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Time Pass

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 One of my favorite Indian term is "Time Pass". I have heard of it while watching Bollywood movies. It is defined as the “action or fact of passing the time, typically in an aimless or unproductive way.” according to the dictionary from Oxford Languages. Today, I want to use the term in context of relationships. In recent years, I have discovered that some relationships are just time pass for people. You enter in a relationship with someone fully knowing that you have no intention of being serious. It means you are fooling around with that person but your ultimate goal is not to settle down whether to get married or to be a in a monogomous long term relationship. This is not a problem when both parties involved agree to the terms. It becomes an issue if one part of the couple is more serious than the other. You date someone hoping to get hitched only for that person to consider you time pass. It is frustrating. Top - Numero Uno Jeans - Mango Bag - Gracias boutique Sandals - D...

The case of the Ex(es)

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As much as I love to talk about my mariage, or failed mariage, it is not the only relationship I had. I dated men before and after. Although I am not sure we can qualify dating at 17 as a serious relationship. Still most of those relationships were serious to me. Over the years, I managed to stay friendly with almost all of my exes or at least cordial. Some of them I still consider friends, others I would not mind at all meeting them for a quick chat, while a few I would love to pretend that they never existed.  Même si j'aime parler de mon mariage, ou de mon mariage raté, ce n'est pas la seule relation que j'ai eue. Je suis sortie avec des hommes avant et après. Bien que je ne sois pas sûre qu'on puisse qualifier une rencontre à 17 ans de relation sérieuse. Pourtant, la plupart de ces relations étaient sérieuses pour moi. Au fil des ans, j'ai réussi à rester amie avec presque tous mes ex ou du moins cordiale. Certains d'entre eux, je les considère toujours comm...

Situationships or how to find the true character of a person

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I am no relationship expert but over the years, I have acquired some wisdom on the matter. It is probably because of my own experience. But mostly because now I am surrounded by people (or women) who openly discuss their relationships troubles.  Today, I want to talk about 4 situations during which the true colors of the person you are dating will be revealed. The aim of dating is to get to know a person to see if you want them to become your spouse or lifelong partner. Unless you are into casual dating, which is fine also. You know, to each his own. Nevertheless, being in the 4 situations I will discuss below, can help you determine the character of any person, let alone your date.  Dress and matching scarf - from a local tailor Bag - Jolof Cuir Collection Shoes -  Petersen market Accessories - Petersen market  While traveling: I think it is one of the most important situation in which you get to truly know a person. From the planning of the trip to the trip itself....